古人夫妇相敬如宾,传为美谈。夫妇之间,尚以相敬为难为美;一家之中,父母之于子,舅姑之于妇,及姑嫂妯娌之间,皆宜以&ldo;相敬如宾&rdo;为尚,明矣。家人妇子同居一家,&ldo;敬&rdo;字最难;不敬,则口角是非生焉矣。析居析产,所以重个人之人格也,俾不得以太亲近而生狎慢之心焉。而不远去,又不欲其过疏也,俾时得定省父母,以慰其迟暮之怀,有疾病死亡,又可相助也。
一二、还我青岛,日非无利
(八月十七日)
昨记吾所料日人将以青岛归中国。今晨读报,知日政府昨夜以《哀的米敦书》致德政府,要求二事,其第二事即令德政府以胶州租借地全境交与日政府,以为他日交还中国之计。吾所料中矣。但不知日政府之能践言否,又不知其所欲交换之条件如何耳。
吾之为&ldo;日本还我青岛&rdo;之想也,初非无据而言。他日世界之竞争,当在黄白两种。黄种今惟日本能自立耳。然日人孤立,安能持久?中国者,日之屏蔽也。藩篱之撤,日之所患,今日之政治家如大隈已有亲华之趋向(参看大隈《第三次东方平和论》,见《东方杂志》)。然日人侵略之野心,早为世界所侧视,中美之人尤疑之。日人果欲消除中国疑忌之心及世界嫉妒之心,决非空言所能为力。何则?历史之往事(如中日之役)早深入人心矣。青岛之地,本非日有,日人得之,适足以招英人之忌。而又不甘以之让英、法。何则?英、法之厚,日之薄也。若为吾华取还青岛,则有数利焉:(一)可以交欢中国;(二)可以自告于世界,示其无略地之野心;(三)可以释英人之忌。吾所见如此,此吾政治上之乐观也,吾何恤人之笑吾痴妄也?
一三、日英盟约
(八月十七日)
agreentofalliancebeeentheunitedkgdoandjapan
signedatlondon,july13,1911
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第27章民国三年(1914)八月十一日至九月十五日(2)